Friday, November 16, 2012

Your day is only as good as you think it is.

College has helped me realize that positivity is key in life. Through a positive attitude, even the worst day can be made into a great one. Life is all how YOU look at it, people! And that's the truth!

For example; every single time I take a math 1050 test, I feel SO bummed out because "I jsut know I failed that test.", and it literally ruins my whole day. Now... most of the time I'm right (not kidding), but yesterday I tried something different. I went into my math test with a positive attitude. I had
Studied for about six hours (literally) the night before, and even though there were some things that I was worried about remembering, I knew that I had tried my hardest, and that was just going to have to be good enough. Unlike any of my other math tests, I answered every single question, and I'm pretty sute that I answered them right! I truly believe that my positive attitude had all the difference in my performance on that test. The rest of that day just kept on getting better and better.

I remember once in high school, this kid bore his testimony at a seminary Christmas lunchside, and it seemed like the "theme" (If a testimony can have a theme) of his testimony was "There's always someone else who is worse off than you are." If you think about it... this is true! I mean... sure... that friend that stole your ex-boyfriend from 6th grade is a HUGE jerk, but there are KIDS STARVING IN AFRICA! I'm sure you'd take the boyfriend stealing friend over going to bed starving. Oh, and p.s. a lot of them don't have beds to go to either... I bet you do.

and something that goes right along with this theory...

One of the best things you can do to get yourself out of a slump is to SERVE SOMEONE ELSE! Come on! I know you've heard it a thousand times, but have you tried it? Do you believe it? I can honestly tell you that it's true! I don't do it near as often as I should... but it does work! Especially with Thanksgiving coming up in T minus 6 days, it's the perfect time to test out this experiment! I dare you to serve someone else! Whether it be something big like donating money, canned goods, or time to a local shelter, or just doing the dishes for your mother after the Thanksgiving meal!

Hopefully someone, somewhere takes something out of this... and hopefully everyone has the best day ever tomorrow, because your day really is only as good as you think it is. 

Thursday, November 1, 2012

-- Pick Two --

I never thought that "furthering my education" would limit me so much. I've always thought that college would be so... liberating, and create amazing experiences and opportunities for me. Though I'm sure that the great experiences and opportunities will start coming after years of hard work and devotion to my schooling, I'm getting worn out NOW!

I was recently stalkin' up the tweets, and I saw a retweet from a kid who said something like...

Pick two:
-Get good grades
-Have a job
-Have a social life


I just sat and thought to myself about how true this really is!

If I don't have a job, I can spend time with my friends and do homework, but I won't have any money.
If I don't do my homework I can spend time with my friends and have a job, but I'll have bad grades.

... now, because I'm way too responsible, I obviously choose the third option...

If I don't spend any time with my friends, I can have a job, and good grades, but I'll be, like, the loneliest person alive.

I know, I know. You're all thinking "wow, this girl is so pathetic; all she does is complain." That's not what I'm doing... (Okay, it is... but...) The point that I'm trying to prove is the fact that I have so much faith that by going to college, and keeping a job so that I have money to go to college, my life will be so much better in the future. I think it's amazing that so many people DO have this much faith, because college is hard! It would be so easy to just graduate high school, and start working a minimum wage job, and live with your parents until you get married. I'm not saying that this is a bad thing, because for some people, that's the smartest way to go! But what I am saying is that I really look up to anyone who has the ability to choose the college path, and sticks it out till the end, because I'm just now realizing how difficult it is.

Kudos to every alumni from every college everywhere. The sacrifices that all of you have made for an education has driven me to want the same.